So I’ve tried and failed to lose fat so many times, my
resolve deflating faster than a balloon let loose in the air. I didn’t even lose
the weight after posting a blog article almost a year ago stating that I was
“sure to do it this time”. I started out strong (too strong), adhering to a
really strict diet and rigorous exercise routine, loosing 10 pounds the first
two weeks. But I got burned out and quit. Over the following months, I gained
the weight back and then some. I didn’t get my resolve back to try again until
the end of January 2013.
My new approach was to try eating healthy FIRST (always the
hardest part for me) and then add a daily exercise routine. I knew that no
amount of exercise could truly compensate for unhealthy and over eating. I
didn’t do any crazy diet or take pills. I just made healthy choices with
veggies, high anti-oxidant fruits, healthy fats, oatmeal and cutting down on my
glutinous grains. I kept the toasted English muffin and tortilla in my diet,
however. They filled my stomach, helping me feel satisfied. They gave substance
to my proteins and veggies, like when I made a fat-free turkey or black bean, stewed
tomato and leafy veggie tortilla wrap.
And guess what happened when I chose water instead of other
drinks and ate healthy, keeping my daily caloric intake between 1,300 and 1,500?
Combined with my usual daily chores, running the kids around, laundry, dishes
and cleaning, I lost 3 pounds the first week and 3 the next – JUST by eating
healthier. After two weeks of this, I felt confident enough to incorporate an
exercise routine without the risk of sabotaging my efforts through bad eating.
I did 45 minutes to an hour of sweating exercise 6 days a
week (taking every Sunday off). I jogged on a Planet Fitness treadmill or
outside as weather permitted or I did aerobics in my home. I did all my
exercising in the morning after dropping my first-grader off at school and
before the younger ones got up for the day. It was sometimes hard when I felt
like I needed more sleep, but I forced myself to stay up and just do it.
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I also rediscovered the avocado. Some people shy away from
this fruit because they either dislike the taste or know that one avocado
contains 30 grams of fat, albeit good fat. Well I LOVE the avocado with a
little salt and pepper, but only allow myself a quarter each day because of the
fat content. I actually spread it on my toasted English muffin. Finding foods
that I like, and are healthy, have made all the difference in sticking to
healthy eating. I don’t have to JUST eat salads or raw nuts (nuts give me
canker sores) or tofu (never cared much for tofu). There are SO MANY good foods
out there that I can eat and enjoy that help me stick to a healthy diet, have
energy to workout and still lose weight and not feel deprived at the end of the
day.
HOWEVER, not being perfect by any means, once in a while, if
I’m having a rough day and the thought of sweets won’t leave, I’ll grab either a
fun size Three Musketeers candy bar (regular or mint), a mini peppermint
patty, or I pop about 15 M&Ms into my mouth. As long as I have
the restraint to stop there (and I do), my craving is satisfied and my diet is
still on track (but I’m sure to jot down the calories and fat from the extra treat).
I write down ALL my calories.
So there you go. This is what presently works for me. I’ve
lost 20 pounds in the two months since I began, and I am working on the next 10.
I have my brother’s wedding coming up as well as publicity pictures in
preparation for the release of my debut novel, Shadows of Valor. I want to feel
and look good for those occasions.
I’d love to hear what works for you.